The only fun thing about wrestling is getting your hand raised, according to UB head wrestling coach John Stutzman. However, after Stutzman's first match in the seventh grade, his opponent had his hand raised.

After losing the match, Stutzman went home crying.

His mom responded with a pointed message: "Toughen up. If you don't like it, go be a swimmer."

He knew he had to toughen up.